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Thursday, May 22, 2014

"M" is for Mud . . .

"And Ruth the Moabitess said unto Naomi,
Let me now go to the field,
and glean ears of corn after him
In whose sight I shall find grace.
And she said unto her, Go, my daughter."
Ruth 2:2  KJV

"M" is for 'Mud' or I suppose that I could have said muddy!

The original "Sandy Spring"
Back in April, thirteen members of Friends Committee on Scouting gathered on the Campus of Sandy Spring Friends School, in Sandy Spring, Maryland, for our Annual Meeting and 25th Anniversary Celebration. I had an amazing time, I hope the other members did as well. The fun, fellowship, food, laughter, stories, photo ops and yes, the picking on one another or teasing as some might call it . . . all in good fun.
 
Well, everything was going just fine . . . until Sunday morning! Yeah, wait until Sunday morning . . .

One of the 'mud' obstacles . . .
this was the easy one
to get around
The plan was to take a "leisurely two mile hike through the woods, part of the Underground Railroad trail, past the original Sandy Spring to the historical Sandy Spring Meeting House for Meeting for Worship." What our host didn't figure on was the rain, or was it the recent snow . . . that left areas of the path a bit sloppy!


Sandy Spring
Friends Meeting House
A comment made by one of my Scouting Friends, upon hearing that we'd be sleeping on wrestling mats in the gym at Sandy Spring Friends School that weekend was "I am so pleased we will be sleeping on mats. John Woolman would approve." I haven't quite figured that comment out yet. But I'm wondering 'WWGFS?' and 'WWLB-PS?' OK, I would hope that Quaker Scouters and even Quaker Guiders would be able to figure those two out, but just in case you are neither, or your brain just isn't getting it . . . 'What Would George Fox Say?' and 'What Would Lord Baden-Powell Say?' You won't lose any Brownie Points with me if you didn't figure it out for yourself! That is, what would they have to say about our hiking though the woods and through the mud, to get to Meeting for Worship? OK, only four of us actually hiked through the woods to get to Meeting . . . and we were met by four more that drove.
 
So, yes, "M" is for 'Mud,' a muddy hike through the woods to get to Meeting for Worship . . . with my Scouting Friends . . . a perfect end to an amazing weekend!
 
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Now for a couple of  recipes . . . Molasses Spice Cookies are another one of those cookies my Mom only made for Christmas, which was a shame cause they were really good. The second recipe I've included for Mom's Apple Sauce Bread we had from time to time, sorry as I have no clue who "Mom" is . . . I know it's not my Mom, but it could have been her mother or just a recipe that she copied from somewhere that was called that. Enjoy!

Molasses Spice Cookies
(makes 60 cookies)
 
½ cup shortening (white shortening, like Crisco)
¼ teaspoon salt
½ cup sugar
¼ teaspoon ground allspice
1 large egg, beaten
¼ teaspoon ground cloves
¼ teaspoon baking soda
¼ teaspoon ground mace
¼ cup molasses (mild)
½ teaspoon ground cinnamon
2 ¼ cups all-purpose flour, sifted
½ teaspoon ground ginger
 
Preheat oven to 375˚ F.  Ungreased cookie sheets.
 
Cream shortening, add sugar gradually. Add egg. Mix soda with molasses and add to creamed mixture. Gradually add flour sifted with salt and spices. Put thru cookie press. Top with colored worms.
 
Bake for 8 minutes.
 
OK, those not from the US might think I've lost all  my marbles with this, but 'worms' is what we always called them when I was a kid, I know that some people put them on ice cream - I think the name I've seen them go by is 'sprinkles.' They're small tubular multi-colored candies that are sold in the grocery stores around here for decorating cookies . . . they add some festive color to these cookies. But I've got a new idea to try, next time I make a batch of these . . . chopped up glace ginger!

 
Mom’s Apple Sauce Bread
 
2 cups all-purpose flour, sifted
¾ cups sugar 
3 teaspoons baking powder
1 teaspoon salt
½ teaspoon baking soda
½ teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 ½ cups apple sauce
2 Tablespoons shortening, melted (white shortening - like Crisco)
1 large egg

Preheat oven to 350˚ F. Grease  an  8"x4” or 9"x5” loaf pan. If using glass, turn down to 325˚ F.

Sift together dry ingredients. Beat egg into apple sauce. Add dry ingredients and melted shortening. Nuts may be added if desired.

Bake 1 hour.


 

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

'L' is for Legacy . . .

"And Ruth the Moabitess said unto Naomi,
Let me now go to the field,
and glean ears of corn after him
In whose sight I shall find grace.
And she said unto her, Go, my daughter.
Ruth 2:2  KJV 

"L" is for Legacy . . .' One of the definitions for Legacy I found says: 'anything handed down from the past, as from an ancestor or predecessor,' which I think fits where this blog post will go.
 
It was the last week of May two years ago, that I went up to Quaker Haven Camp to help with the renovations being done to Friendship Lodge. I left home early Saturday morning arriving at camp mid morning and left camp the following Saturday morning . . . it was a long week, but seemed not long enough. I went up not knowing what jobs/tasks would be assigned to me or for how long I would be there, but with the intent that I could stay the whole week.
 
The Lounge -
when I arrived on Saturday
When I arrived I went into Friendship Lodge and tried to figure out exactly who I should report to . . . looking around the lounge area all I could think of was oh my, this will never be done by next weekend! And this room wasn't a part of the renovations being done at that time, but it was where a lot of the materials for the renovations were - and it was a mess! As I looked down the hallway, where the bedrooms were located, I could see that there was plenty of work that needed to be done.
 
One of the bedrooms -
when I arrived
on Saturday
The hallway had new tile on the floor and the walls had been painted, a couple of Young Friends were installing the baseboard molding. Looking into the bedrooms - the walls had been painted . . . several had toilets sitting in the middle of them and maybe even a sink. They still needed carpet, baseboard molding, wallpaper borders, mini blinds on the windows and furniture. The bathrooms had the showers installed, but were lacking toilets, sinks, fixtures in the showers, some light fixtures and toilet paper holders. There was a lot of work to be done!

I did a lot of tasks that week, working together with some Friends I knew and Friends I was just meeting for the first time. Friends from Western Yearly Meeting and Indiana Yearly Meeting all working together . . . using the gifts and talents that God gave each of us to get the job done. Several Young Friends were there over the weekend . . . what a blessing to see them giving what they had to help out and give back to their camp. Older Friends throughout the week doing what needed to be done - some with skills needed to install the sinks, light and plumbing fixtures in the new bathrooms; putting up wallpaper borders in the new bedrooms; installing this and that . . . teaching and learning new skills along the way.

One of the
doors I painted
Some of the jobs I had included helping to install the door knobs and hinges on the bedroom doors, painting three of the outside doors (inside & outside) which lead to the Camp Director asking me if I would give a fresh coat of paint to the outside of the double doors leading into the Chapel. I vacuumed a lot of carpets! I helped carry in and assemble several bunk beds - some were standard twin over twin and some twin over double.

One Friend was installing the baseboard moldings in the bedrooms and I had heard him say that he needed to leave no later than 7pm that evening, as he needed to drive home. There was no way he was going to finish all the moldings before he left and I could see that it would be so much easier to have the molding done before the beds were brought in and assembled. Before I left to get something for dinner I stopped and asked him if that was something that I could do, he looked surprised and said "You know how to do this?" Well, no I have no clue, but I had watched him and the Young Friends doing it and if he was willing to teach me I was willing to try. He showed me how to do it and then he watched me do one wall and around the two corners and left me to do what I could. Before he left he gave me his cell phone number so that I could call him the next day and tell him how much more needed to be done so he could get some more caulk on his way back to camp. I think he had about 5 of the 12 rooms done before he left. So, I spent that evening installing moldings in several bedrooms and finished the rest the next morning before lunch. As I headed down to lunch I called this Friend to tell him that all the bedrooms were done, except for the one corner that I couldn't do. I think he was surprised that I had been able to finish the job.

So, what does all this renovation work have to do with Legacy? Well, while I was there working that week I met Morris, a former Director for Quaker Haven Camp, who now lives across the lake with his wife. Morris told me that Friendship Lodge had been built back when he was the Director of Quaker Haven and he had helped built it . . . thus "leaving his mark," and had returned to help with the renovations "leaving his mark" yet again. Morris said you are now "making your mark" here in Friendship Lodge. The conversations we had that week as we worked together were PRICELESS.
 
One of the bedrooms
What legacy have I OR am I leaving at Quaker Haven? Morris said that the work I was doing that week in Friendship Lodge was now a part of my legacy, which in itself didn't seem like much, but he went on . . . the bigger part of the legacy that I’m making/leaving at Quaker Haven is with the campers, the CIT's, the councilors, the session staff and the camp staff that I work with, and have conversations with over the years.
 
Friday evening I attended the dinner and gospel sing in the Lodge, a time to sit back and relax as our work was complete - Friendship Lodge was cleaned and awaiting its first guest to arrive, later that evening. One of the singers, a Pastor, quoted a scripture - "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13, a scripture that I know well. I thought about that verse the rest of Friday night and on the drive home (lots of time to think when you have 175 miles to drive by yourself) and how it really tied the whole week together. From walking into the Friendship Lodge a week earlier and thinking there was no way it would be ready for anyone to stay there by Friday night and a couple of days during the week when there were only a handful of us working - again thinking that there was no way we can get this all done without more help. But we did get it done, OK there was a bit more work that needed to be done, but it was usable. And how did we get it done . . . with prayers, our faith and our trust in God - that He would provide.
 
One of the bathrooms
Someone, and I honestly don’t recall who, made the comment about me on Thursday, that there wasn’t a job that I had been asked or given to do that I said I can’t or I won’t do. I guess I knew, in the back of my mind, that God was with me and would help me. I remember commenting that I was a ‘jack of all trades and a master of none’ . . . and I’m still looking to earn my masters! It all goes back to Philippians 4:13 . . . “I CAN DO all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

When I left Friendship Lodge Friday afternoon I had a conversation with Brandon, the Director – he talked about how Quaker Haven was built by volunteers. What an awesome legacy to be a part of. Very little of what we have at Quaker Haven has been done by paid contractors/professionals . . . nearly everything has been done by volunteers . . . Western Yearly Meeting and Indiana Yearly Meeting Friends working together, side-by-side for the good of all Friends and visitors who come to spend time at Quaker Haven and soak in all the beauty God provides for us . . . what we see, hear, smell, touch and feel . . . God is good!

I returned to Quaker Haven as a counselor about a month later, last June and I will be back in July this year, but it's different – no paint brushes, screwdrivers, wenches, staple guns, caulking guns, vacuum cleaners, window cleaner, scaffolding or ladders to climb on or wet rags . . . I return as a counselor with a  cabin full of 5th & 6th grade girls and a CIT or two – time to sit back and relax and spend time sharing God’s Word and all He has created with the campers, CIT’s, other counselors and staff. A different work, yes, but an opportunity to work on another piece of my legacy at Quaker Haven Camp.

Friends from the past, such as George Fox, Margaret Fell, Lucretia Mott, William Penn, Anthony Benezet, Robert Barclay, Levi Coffin, Mary Dyer, Stephen Grellet, Joseph Gurney, Elias Hicks, Rufus Jones, Isaac Pennington, John Greenleaf Whittier and John Woolman just to name a few . . . all have left their legacy for Friends. But they're not the only Friends who have left their legacy . . . there are countless others who are leaving their legacies.

So, what other pieces of my life are a part of my legacy? My work in Scouting - both Girl Scouting & Boy/Cub Scouting; my faith - Church/Meeting; Friends Committee on Scouting; Weekday Religious Education; my family and my crafting - counted cross stitch, crocheting, knitting, sewing & quilting.

We all have a legacy to leave . . . What is your legacy? What is it that you've done, are doing, OR will do that others will remember you for?

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The first recipe comes by way of one of my classmates, Pamela Lofgren. We attended school together from Kindergarden through High School. Pamela made this for her 4-H cooking project in the summer of 1972. The second recipe is for a yummy chocolate frosting! 

Lofgren’s Lemon Squares

1 cup all-purpose flour
¼ cup powdered sugar
½ cup butter
3 large eggs
¾ teaspoon baking powder
1 ½ cup sugar
3/8 teaspoon salt
2 ½ Tablespoon lemon juice

Preheat oven to 325˚F.  Greased 9”x9”x2” pan.

Cut in flour, powdered sugar and butter till mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Press into pan.

Bake for 15 minutes.

Mix eggs, baking powder, sugar, salt and lemon juice and spread over baked layer. Return to oven.

Bake about 25 minutes more. Cool. Sprinkle with powdered sugar when cool!
 

Luxury Chocolate Frosting

2-12 ounce packages semi-sweet chocolate pieces
½ cup butter or margarine
1 cup confectioners’ sugar, sifted
3 large eggs, unbeaten
1 teaspoon vanilla

Melt chocolate pieces over hot water; cool completely at room temperature. Cream butter or margarine, gradually add confectioners’ sugar. Add eggs, one at a time, beating with rotary beater. Blend in vanilla and cooled chocolate; beat until smooth.

Decorate cake with Brazil nut slivers.




 

Monday, May 19, 2014

"K" is for Kid's Club . . .

"And Ruth the Moabitess said unto Naomi,
Let me now go to the field,
and glean ears of corn after him
In whose sight I shall find grace.
And she said unto her, Go, my daughter."
Ruth 2:2  KJV
 
We built Noah's Ark in the
basement of the Meeting House
"K" is for Kid's Club . . . ' Kid's Club is the name of our Wednesday evening youth program here at Mooresville Friends Meeting. It began with three simple summer events - one each in June, July and August - lasting a few hours each. My younger three children, Nathaniel, Elizabeth and Catherine, helped in writing a grant that got this program started back in 2005 through the 'Youth As Resources' program of the United Way Agency of Central Indiana. The grant project was called 'Kids Uniting' and they received a $440 grant for their project.

Some of the animals
found in Noah's Ark
Kid's Club is a community 'outreach' program that also includes a bit of 'inreach' as well - reaching in to the Young Friends that we have in our Meeting and to our adult Friends as well. The Kid's Club program is a through the week ministry that provides a safe place for not only our Young Friends but also for neighborhood children to gather for spiritual growth and nurture. It's a program where we encourage the youth to grow in their faith and through it we are able to introduce Jesus to those youth and families from the neighborhood who may not know Him or know Him well. Our staff provides not only spiritual nourishment but also emotional and physical as well. As I'm sure is the case with all Meetings, we have those who are well gifted with leadership skills to work with the youth and those who we see the gift in and are working with to nurture those gifts - be it adults or our older Young Friends/youth.

Washing paint off
little hands . . .
Over the last nine years, since we began this youth ministry program, we've seen many changes in the adult staff, the programing - making up our own or using prepared youth ministry programing kits, as well as changes in the youth who attend. I believe the original program began for youth in grades 3 - 6 and has now grown to include youth from pre-school age (with the parent staying and participating with their child/children) through High School aged youth. Youth in Junior High - High School (7th-12th grades) are often times referred to 'Youth As Leaders' and serve as assistants with adults with the younger youth. This Spring we discontinued the 'Big Bucks Store' - a large variety of items that the youth could purchase with the 'Big Bucks' the received for attending, bringing a friend with them and for various other reasons. We've also gone from just a bit of a snack to serving a light dinner - pizza, pizza rolls, chicken strips/French fries, baked spaghetti, grilled cheese sandwiches, mac & cheese, raw veggies/dip, fruit and pudding cups trying to serve something to nourish their whole body. I over heard one of the boys ask as he came in last Wednesday "Did we miss dinner?" No, they hadn't missed 'dinner' it was a bit late, as they picked up 6 pizzas from Little Caesar's!

2014 Mother's Day gifts
Handprints turned
into butterflies.
When we first started out everyone was in one big group. Then when we ended up with the older youth, Junior High/High School age, we broke into two groups. Now, we've got four groups going - Preschool, Kindergarden - 2nd grade, 3rd grade - 6th grade and 7th grade - High School. For a while we even offered an adult Bible Study class - which took several different forms - including Bible basics for those who really didn't know the Bible and at one time the adults studied the same lesson that the youth were . . . so that they could talk about it when they got home as a family.

Christmas Program - We had
a lot of Angels in this one!
We meet from September - late May, following the school calendar, taking a break from mid-December through February - due to the unkind weather we had several years ago . . . we found it easier to not plan to meet during that time than to have to get the word out that we weren't going to meet due to bad weather. For two - three weeks in late November through mid- December, they youth work on a Christmas play of sorts, which is now the 'entertainment' for our all Meeting Christmas dinner - use to be our 'Salad Supper' which was a pitch-in dinner of various salads that we sat down to after decorating the Meeting House and the Friendship House for Christmas.  We take a break during the summer due in part to lack of participation, which made it hard to plan, and to give our adult staff a much needed break to pause and refresh ourselves and plan for the upcoming year.
 
Over the last 9 years I've played various roles with Kid's Club, for the last year or two (at some point it all runs together and you lose track of the time you've done something) I've been giving oversight in the kitchen . . . that is, I'm the one who finishes getting the snack/food ready, serves it and then cleans up.

So, are we on the right track? Are we doing things right? Are we meeting the needs of our community/neighborhood? Are we meeting the needs of our Young Friends and our Adult Friends? Is there something that we're missing? Something more that we could/should be doing?
 
From this outreach ministry we have had a few families come and attend worship with us and several families that have become members our Meeting, so I believe we're doing something right . . . we are building God's Kingdom . . . we are bringing the little ones to Him and even some of the bigger ones!

 
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Recipe time! From my mom's recipe file, another one of those cookies that only got made at Christmas. I'm not a nut person, so this is not one that I've eaten, but if my memory is right, this is one of my Godfathers' favorites . . . my mom's one and only sibling and her younger brother, my Uncle Dick.
 
Keeflies
(makes 18-20 dozen cookies)
4 cups flour
1 pound butter
6 large egg yolks, beaten
½ pint sour cream (or evaporated milk)

Preheat oven to 350˚ F. Ungreased cookie sheets.

Mix flour and butter like pastry; add beaten yolks and sour cream (or evaporated milk). Work until dough is smooth. Roll into long rolls as for ice-box cookies. Chill in refrigerator for 24 hours. Cut in ¼” slices; cut those into 4 pieces and roll in palm of hand into balls. Put on slightly floured board and roll each paper thin. Fill with following nut filling.

Nut Filling:
½ pound nuts, shelled
1 pound powdered sugar
6 large egg whites, beaten
¼ teaspoon lemon juice

Shell and grind nuts, add sugar, beaten egg whites and lemon juice. Put a teaspoon of filling on each little round of dough. Roll up like a jelly roll and curve into horseshoe shape.

Bake for about 15 minutes, or until lightly browned. May be sprinkled with powdered sugar.

Recipe from Mrs. D. A. Martin, and printed in  the South Bend Tribune, Indiana.
 
 
 
 

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

"J" is for Journal / Journaling . . .

"And Ruth the Moabitess said unto Naomi,
Let me now go to the field,
and glean ears of corn after him
In whose sight I shall find grace.
And she said unto her, Go, my daughter."
Ruth 2:2  KJV

"J" is for Journal/Journaling . . .' OK a certain, nameless, Friend suggested to me, and a few other Friends, last Spring that we start/keep a journal . . . a journal about the upcoming Pilgrimage to Ireland/Northern Ireland that we were going on in July. I'm not one to keep a journal or diary or any such thing, not gonna happen. Alright, I gave it a good try . . . I don't even want to tell you how far I got with the whole journal thingy . . . but I didn't get very far.

My Ireland Pilgrimage
Journal
Actually, when I finally found a journal that I liked and bought it, so much time had already gone by. I didn't know where to start or how to start or what to write about . . . I was really confused about this whole journal thing . . .

Finally, I jumped right in . . . but I didn't start with the current day, no not me, that would have been too simple . . . I went back to February 1st. Or back about 6 weeks to the first day that I had read about the Pilgrimage and went from there. So how was I able to go back so far??? Good question . .  . I went back through the 'instant messages' that this Friend and I had shared, along with the emails, other Facebook postings along the way and a few hand written scribbles. Some days I would go though and write two or three weeks of postings at a time . . . but then there'd be a week or maybe more that I wouldn't write a thing. SIGH . . .

I've said it here before; I'm sure more than once along the way in my blog posts, that I'm NOT a writer! I really, strongly dislike writing . . . so, let's not go there.

So, I've tried keeping a journal, didn't work and now, I set-up this blog a year ago, but have only been publishing since June 23, 2013, and this post is my 55th post. Whoda thought? Not me . . . I thought I was going to publish a couple of posts before I went to Ireland, post while I was there and maybe a few right after I returned, 15-20 tops . . . little did I know that I'd still be writing and publishing and blogging my way through the Quaker Alphabet!

I suppose, in a wild and crazy sorta way, my blog has turned into my journal. A journal not just for my eyes to see and read, but an open book of sorts for those who have been lead to it or have somehow stumbled upon it.

But wait a minute . . .

This isn't where I thought this post was going when I first wrote down the idea back in December or January. Back then my thought for blogging about journal/journaling was to write about the journals of early Friends like George Fox . . . Oh well! I also had thoughts of mentioning, so I will . . . because I can, that in some of the Quaker Scouting curricula that we have we suggest to the Young Scouting Friends that they keep a journal, write down their thoughts and answers to the questions in a journal . . . just like the early Friends/Quakers kept journals. WHOOPS, there I go with another plug for Friends Committee on Scouting and our programs . . . I can't help myself! (But if you've missed it before, check us out at www.quakerscouting.org OR on Facebook - look for 'Friends Committee on Scouting' OR you can email me at clerk@quakerscouting.org).

The point here is that many early Friends/Quakers kept journals and these journals are quoted quite often by Friends/Quakers today. Journals were/are important . . . and as I found out it takes a bit of discipline to keep up with one.
Blank pages . . .
so many blank pages

So, my Ireland Pilgrimage journal, well it is what it is . . . in the instant messages, Facebook postings and emails that I shared with Friends, it's not in the pretty green journal that I spent so much time looking for.

Have you ever tried to keep a journal? Was it just ramblings OR did you write about something specific?

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Now it's recipe time! This piece has become a bit of an addiction, thanks to another Friend who happened to have made a comment shortly after I joined this Quaker Alphabet blog challenge . . . so to that Friend . . . thanks! Seriously, this has become an interesting challenge to dig through family recipes and come up with a recipe or two for each letter. These recipes are ones that came to me or my mom through friends and were family favorites! Enjoy . . .


Julia’s Punch
(serves 30)
 
1 small can pineapple juice (it's been a while, but I'm guessing smaller than a 64 ounce can - and this is ready to drink)
6 ounce frozen lemonade
6 ounce frozen orange juice
3 quarts 7-up
1 pint sherbet

Mix altogether, leaving the sherbet in chunks (looks cool to have the sherbet in balls).

Recipe from Julia Sticker, Mother Advisor of St. Joseph Assembly #78 Order of Rainbow for Girls, in South Bend, Indiana - of which I was a member from 8th grade through High School. Rainbow Girls is a Masonic affiliated organization for girls - my father, grandfather and several uncles were members.

 
Joe's Banana Bread
 
Nope, can't just post this one . . . if you want it message me!
This is one that I made for several years for the Annual USFW Bazaar
here at Mooresville Friends, so it's a top secret recipe! Meaning that I may or may not share it with you, even if you ask!


Joe’s Ginger Snaps
(makes 4 dozen cookies)
 
¾ cup margarine
1 cup sugar
1 large egg
¼ cup light molasses
2 cup flour
2 teaspoon baking soda
¼ teaspoon ground cinnamon
½ teaspoon  ground ginger
dash ground cloves
dash salt
 
Preheat oven to 375˚ F.  Ungreased cookie sheets.
 
Beat margarine and sugar together. Add egg and molasses. Add remaining ingredients and mix together. Make balls the size of walnuts – roll in granulated sugar. Place on cookie sheets.
Bake for 12 minutes.

This recipe came from the Warner family - and it was one their kids used in  4-H. I don't remember, but Joe might have been one of their kids.


 




Sunday, May 4, 2014

"I" is for Inter-Generational Ministry . . .

"And Ruth the Moabitess said unto Naomi,
Let me now go to the field,
and glean ears of corn after him
In whose sight I shall find grace.
And she said unto her, Go, my daughter."
Ruth 2:2  KJV

OK, so "I" is one of those letters that I had several thoughts for before I started actually writing any posts for my Quaker Alphabet series, but when I finally got to it, well, neither of the ideas I started out with back in January was working for me. And then I had this thought the other day: "I" is for 'Inter-Generational Ministry.'

So, what is inter-generational ministry? It's a ministry which emphasizes relationships between age groups and encourages mixed-age activities. A ministry that de-emphasizes the formal teacher-pupil relationship.

I was planning to post this piece a bit later, but I think I'll go ahead a plug this amazing group of talented (extremely so) Young Friends that we have here in Western Yearly Meeting and I may be totally biased here, as well I should be. This is what THEIR ministry is all about . . .


Road Show at
Yearly Meeting
I'm talking about our 'Youth Cabinet,' they are the leaders of the Young Friends in my Yearly Meeting (High School aged students - 14-18 year olds). The members of the Youth Cabinet get together and come up with a 'message' that they feel that the members of our Yearly Meeting need to hear. They put together several little skits, songs, small group conversations and personal testimonies into a program . . . which they share at various Meetings, no more than once a month, around the Yearly Meeting during the school year . . . known as the 'Road Show.' Their final show is on Friday evening of our Yearly Meeting session in late July.

The various Meetings around schedule the Road Show to come to them. The youth, and adults traveling with them (including the Yearly Meeting Director of Christian Education, Clerk of Christian Education and another member of the Christian Education committee) usually meet up at the Yearly Meeting Office, in Plainfield, load up their equipment and themselves and drive to the Meeting they are visiting. The Road Show crew enjoys hospitality (meals and lodging) and fellowship with the members of the host Meeting and other local Meetings.


Road Show at
Mooresville Friends Meeting
They present their program, usually Saturday evening after dinner. The skits and the songs remain constant throughout the year, as does the topic for the small group discussions, but the testimonies given by these Young Friends changes . . . changes in that they don't all give their personal testimony each time, they take turns. At any one program you will likely hear anywhere from two to three, or maybe more, testimonies. The Young Friends join in the small group discussions and act as moderators . . . asking questions.

The programs are always very well thought out and delivered. These Young Friends have had some amazing messages to share with us . . . and they are amazing actors and actresses! By the time they get to Yearly Meeting in July . . . well, they've really grown into the roles they've taken on!
 
Oh, I mustn't forget the fun element of the Road Show . . . the game! The Young Friends make up a list of items . . . appears to be a rather lengthy list. At some point during their program they divide the Friends, in the audience, into 'teams'. . . then pull out their list. It's a 'Friendly' game . . . which team has the item, get it to their runner and up to the Young Friends the fastest! Gotta remember to follow the rules. There is one Friend (mom) who seems to have a bag of items in her purse, ready to go for this game . . . I think she goes to all the programs, so by the time the Road Show gets to Yearly Meeting she's got most of the items. Some of the items include: a cell phone, lotion, a diaper, a specific amount of change, chap stick, flashlight, a pen and a hair tie.
 
The Young Friends then spend the night either at the Meeting House or at the homes of members of the Meeting. Sunday morning they attend and sometimes time part in the morning Meeting for Worship. I've heard some talk of stops for ice cream on the way home . . .


Sisters in Skit
The Road Show is an amazing ministry carried out by the Young Friends in Western Yearly Meeting. It's always multi-generational in its scope, and is listed as a Multi-Generational Service in the Yearly Meeting program.
 
At the beginning of this post I mentioned that 'I may be totally biased here' . . . well, I suppose I should explain this comment before I close. My oldest daughter, Elizabeth, was a member of the Road Show when she was in High School and now my youngest daughter, Catherine, is finishing up her last year as a member of the Road Show . . . though this amazing experience I've seen them grow spiritually and into amazing young women of God.

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OK, I gave you a main course dinner recipe with my "I" is for Ireland Yearly Meeting . . . blog post, so now here's dessert! Now, I do know who 'Aunt Thelma' is . . . she is one of my Great-Aunts, specifically my mother's father's sister (got that straight, right?). I always enjoyed going to Wauseon, OH to visit with Aunt Thelma and her family . . . partially because they lived on the Meller family farm and that was always fun, but I think more because she was my Grandfather's sister . . . the Grandfather that I never got to meet as he died about 6 months before my parents married, and nearly 3 years before I was born. So, Aunt Thelma was my only connection to my Grandfather. Like I said, she lived on the Meller family farm, and yes, she had a large family - six daughters before she finally had a son! If I remember right, her oldest daughter was about the same age as my mother and her son wasn't more than a few years older than my older brother (who was 18 months older than I). In the summer we enjoyed this ice cream when we'd go and visit and my mom made it a time or two for us at home. Enjoy!
 
Ice Cream, Aunt Thelma’s Homemade
(makes 1 ½ gallon)
3 quarts milk
1 cup sugar
6 large eggs, separated
2 cups sugar
1 cup flour
¼ - ½  teaspoon salt
3 Tablespoons vanilla
1 ½ cups cream

Heat 3 quarts milk and 1 cup sugar to boiling point. Beat egg yolks and add 2 cups sugar, flour and salt. Add to hot milk mixture and put in freezer can. Beat egg whites and add to milk mixture in can and also add 3 Tablespoons vanilla and 1 ½ cups cream and enough milk to within 1 inch of top of can.
 
Put plenty of salt on ice and freeze till it turns hard. (NOTE: 25 pounds ice?)