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Sunday, February 22, 2015

'B' is for Bibles . . .

"And Ruth the Moabitess said unto Naomi,
Let me now go to the field,
and glean ears of corn after him
In whose sight I shall find grace.
And she said unto her, Go, my daughter."
Ruth 2:2  KJV 

Meetingroom
‘B’ is for Bibles  . . . As a Third Grade I received a King James Bible from my Church, Zion United Church of Christ in South Bend, Indiana. I still have that Bible . . . or should I say Bibles – the original with my name spelled wrong and the replacement with my name spelled correctly, my mom noticed the misspelling and made me go ask Pastor Brueseke for a new one with my name spelled right, which he did. Several years later one of the Sunday School teachers handed me my Bible . . . the one with my name misspelled and insisted I take it, I was taught to obey my elders, so I did.
 
I went to Church camp for four years; I'm thinking it was like 5th-8th grade. One year at Junior High camp, one of my counselors had a Good News for Modern Man Bible and shortly after I got home from camp I purchased one. Can't explain why, at the time I suppose that it was the wording of the scriptures we were reading that just made more sense to me.

Adult Sunday
School Bibles
During my four years at Ball State University I acquired quite a few Gideon New Testaments walking across the Quad – the Gideon’s won’t let you get past them without taking one of their Testaments, even when you tell them you already have a Bible in your room or that they have already given you 3 or 4 Testaments that day. Over the years I’ve also purchased several more Bibles for myself, including a King James and New International Version.

Bibles are also in abundance at Mooresville Friends Meeting. There’s a Bible on the table in the front of the Meetingroom, opened to Psalms 33:12-35:25, not sure that there’s any significance to any scripture here or not. We have NIV Bibles in the pews, a mix of regular and large print, along with our hymnals and a selection of Bibles in our Library. The bookshelf in our adult Sunday School classroom has an assortment of Bibles including King James, New International, American Standard, The Living Bible, The Children’s Living Bible, and a variety of Devotional Bibles. A variety of Children’s Bibles can be found in the Noah’s Ark Sunday School classroom and even more Children & Teen Bibles in the basement where we have our Kid’s Club program.

Some of the Bibles
for older youth
Our Christian Education Committee has given Bibles to our Young Friends for years, traditionally at the end of Third Grade, but there doesn’t seem to be a specific age or time now. As a member of CE, I remember buying Bibles, usually New International versions, but the last several years I’ve noticed that they’ve been giving various Children’s Bibles. Bibles have also been given to many of the youth who attend our Wednesday evening Kid’s Club program, when one asks for one or a need is seen by one of our adults.
 
During a Christian Education Committee meeting, about 14 years ago, we talked about gifts for our youth members that would be given to them at our Salad Supper – a pitch-in dinner held before Christmas. After I volunteered to go out and purchase the gifts, another member of the committee said that whatever the gift was, it had to tell the real story of Christmas AND it had to be the exact same thing for ALL the children. WOW, what did I just get myself into???
 
Not coming up with any ideas, I went up to the Christian Bookstore. As I entered, a display by the door caught my eye . . . and although it did tell the real story of Christmas, but it just didn’t seem to fit the huge age range I was buying for – from just a few months of age up to like 17 years old! I walked around for quite a while and just wasn’t finding anything that spoke to me. I went back to the table by the front door . . . well, it did tell the real story of Christmas, and there were two colors (black and red) – so for most families it would work, except for mine (I have four children) and the price was right. OK, why not! So I picked-up what I needed plus a few extras – half black and half red.
 
I didn’t tell anyone what I had gotten; I just wrapped them up and took them to the Salad Supper. Before I passed them out to the children, I shared the task that was given to me, the same gift for all the children and it had to tell the real story of Christmas – there were some puzzled looks. I then passed the gifts out to all the children and had them open them at the same time. Amazingly, the Bibles were well received by all. The two youngest children belonged to our Pastor, he and his wife loved the Bibles, and told me later that even though their children were so young, these Bibles would be something that they would have to remember their Church family.
 
Bibles have also been given to several adult members and attenders of the Meeting, some receiving large print Bibles while others received Study Bibles. Some asked, while others received them when a need was seen or heard.
 
Camp Bible
During the Junior Camp Session, at Quaker Haven Camp in June 2009, each of the campers received a paperback Bible Sunday evening, assuring all had a Bible to use during the week for devotion and Chapel time. I found that neither of the Bibles that I had taken to camp were the same version, which made it a bit difficult during cabin devotion time. I asked the Director if there was an extra one that I could use, so that we would all be reading the same version. I was given one, which I still take up to camp every summer, along with at least two or three others – sometimes the different versions come in handy and create some interesting conversations. I just love the funky brown paper bag looking cover on this one.
 
In July 2013 as I was preparing to go on a Pilgrimage with and among Friends, to Ireland/Northern Ireland, I received a small, soft covered Study Bible from my Pastor, after one of our conversations. Interesting as I had been trying to figure out which of my Bibles I would take with me on the Pilgrimage . . . I ended up taking my new Study Bible.
 
One morning during Ireland Yearly Meeting I felt so lost during devotions, I had forgotten to grab my Bible that morning. I noticed several Friends on their phones reading the scriptures and I thought, hey I can get online and pull up the scriptures!
 
So what version/versions of the Bible do you have? Why? If you have more than one version like me, which one is your favorite, OR the one that you use most often? Why? What is it that you like? Do you carry your Bible to Meeting with you? Does your Meeting have Bibles in the pews or on the benches that you can use?

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‘B’ is for Bow Tie. According to Wikipedia “The bow tie is a type of necktie. It consists of a ribbon of fabric tied around the collar in a symmetrical manner such that the two opposite ends form loops.” Ah, yes, this reminds me of my oldest son, Charles, and the red bow tie that he often wore to Meeting for Worship when he was a toddler. And one week reading all about one of those Sundays in ‘Becky’s Bits,’ a small article in the local Mooresville Times (hometown newspaper) written by a member of our Meeting, in which she talked about sitting behind us during Worship that Sunday morning and Charles’ red bow tie. Oh, wait, that’s not right . . . this part is supposed to be about quilts and quilt patterns.
 
‘B’ is for Bow Tie quilts and quilt blocks. Bow Tie quilts/quilt blocks are believed to have been used along the Underground Railroad here in the United States during the 1840’s and 1850’s. History of the Bow Tie pattern used for the Underground Railroad tells us that it was used to let the runaway slaves know that it was time to change out of their tattered clothing into clothing worn by those of higher status, making it easier to blend in with those around them. I have three samples of the Bow Ties to share with all of you. 

Underground Railroad
Bow Tie Quilt Block
First, I whipped up this version of the Bow Tie pattern, found in Quilt in a Day Underground Railroad Sampler book, by Eleanor Burns & Sue Bouchard, today. This Bow Tie quilt is made up of four equally sized triangles, sewn together in what I know as the Hourglass pattern. According to the book, the four pieces indicated morning, midday, evening and night. This pattern was also known as Broken Dishes and when arranged on a grave site is a superstition among Southern African Americans. Turned on its side the Hourglass pattern can be seen – symbolizing time well managed, implying that one was among friends. Hummmm, one pattern, three different names . . . Bow Tie, Hourglass and Broken Dishes.

I purchased the Quilt in a Day book, in the fall of 2007, planning to make a small Underground Railroad quilt to use during Girl Scout Day Camp in June of 2008 – we were going with an Underground Railroad theme for our session and I thought we could work something like this into our decorations. This book was perfect, as it had some history of the Underground Railroad and each of the quilt blocks. I purchased fabrics to use for this project, but never got it started.


Aunt Sylvia's
Bow Tie Quilt
Second, a tattered antique Bow Tie quilt that was found in my husbands' Great Aunt Sylvia’s house after she died in October 2010, two months shy of 102 years of age. I don’t remember if it was known that Aunt Sylvia made this quilt, or if it had been made by her sister Beryl (my mother-in-laws mother) or their mother. I’m not sure the photo shows it very well, but this quilt is very well worn . . . VERY WELL LOVED. Notice that one end had been covered, on both sides, with a piece of light blue fabric – an attempt to add a few more years of life to this beloved quilt.
 
After finding this Bow Tie quilt my mother-in-law talked about making my two daughters each a vest from this quilt, but she couldn’t find enough ‘good fabric’ to cut just two front panels to make one vest for the girls to share. It was tossed on the floor in the family room and my son’s little dog, Harley, found it a nice place to curl up and take a nap. Next thing I knew, a few days later it was out in the garage - in the trash.
 
Aunt Sylvia's
Bow Tie Quilt
Close -up
Something told me that I couldn’t let that happen, so I rescued this old quilt from the trash and took it home with me. An early thought, which I’m still hoping to turn into a reality, was to make some angel ornaments out of it as keepsakes . . . I’ve got the vision in my head, but just haven’t been able to find the right design/pattern to use. Last fall, I had a thought of framing pieces of the quilt as keepsakes, haven’t gotten that done yet either. Maybe now, that I’ve laid it out and taken pictures of it and shared it here, I can cut those pieces and put them in shadow box frames and I’ll finally find the right angel pattern and can get those made.

Third, is this small (20x20-inch) Bow Tie wall hanging OR table topper, created from Bow Tie blocks I made about two years ago during one of our quilting sessions at my Meeting. One of the fun things we do in our quilting group at my Meeting is to take turns picking out quilt patterns and then teaching each other how to make different quilts OR quilt blocks and sharing techniques to each other. One Friend taught us how to make the Bow Tie block and then showed us how four Bow Tie blocks could be put together to create a wreath.
 
Bow Tie Wreath
Well, I created a wreath and just never finished it, until this last week when I dugout it out along with the fabrics I had used. I cut strips for the border and binding. After attaching the border I cut the batting and unbleached muslin for the backing and made a quilt ‘sandwich’ – (the backing, batting and quilt top together) and simply quilted it by stitching a quarter-inch away from seam lines. I trimmed it down to size and added the binding.
 
After reading about Bow Tie quilts, I looked at the antique quilt from Aunt Sylvia, my wreath and the one shown in my book – and noticed that they were all totally different! Three examples of the same quilt block and representing three different time periods – the first one from the 1840’s – 1850’s, the second around 1930’s and the third made 2012-13. Amazing to see how this block has evolved over the last 170+ years.
 
Interesting that I found another source that said: “The bow-tie arrived in the 1890’s and was also a part of the underground railroad blocks . . .” How interesting, as the Underground Railroad was during the 1840’s to 1850’s. Wondering if the writer of this particular piece (sorry I lost the reference information on this) got her date from one of the variations of this pattern.
 
Do you have a well-worn antique family quilt in your life? Have you ever made a bow tie block or quilt? 

  
 
 

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

'A' is for Affirmation . . .

 "And Ruth the Moabitess said unto Naomi,
Let me now go to the field,
and glean ears of corn after him
In whose sight I shall find grace.
And she said unto her, Go, my daughter."
Ruth 2:2  KJV
 
‘A is for Affirmation . . .’ a legal declaration made in place of swearing to an oath, especially judicial oaths. A brief bit of Quaker background here for all my non-Quaker friends and family reading this post. Friends with a capital ‘F’ here refers to Quakers. Friends believe that taking an oath implies a double standard of truth, so rather than take an oath most Friends will ‘affirm.’ And for Friends, telling the truth, and telling the truth all the time is very important, going back to their early business practices. OK, now on with this post . . .
 
Our courts require those testifying to swear that what they will say will be the truth. Since Quakers and some non-Quakers, individuals and faith bodies, take issue with swearing an oath, courts in the United States and a few other countries now allow at least Quakers to ‘affirm’ instead of swearing an oath. Most courts will ask those testifying to “swear or affirm to tell the truth,” thus covering Quakers and non-Quakers alike.
 
As I was putting together my thoughts for this post I got into a private Facebook conversation with a good Friend. In the course of that conversation I asked her if she had any ideas for the letter ‘A’ and she replied “Angel food cake and angels???” LOL! I reminded her that I was looking for something Quaker to blog about – her reply “We can think about plain angel food cake-snicker, snicker.” Oh my, what to do with her! But, if you knew this Friend, and some of you do know her, and I expect many of you know her better than I, you’d know that’s the way she is! She then said “Appreciate the humor. Hey, that gives me an idea! What about appreciation?” Well, I did appreciate the humor, and I’ll take it when I can, but for some crazy reason, I seemed to be stuck on blogging about Affirmation.
 
Anyway, getting our conversation and back to affirmation, she said “Affirmation may be a good topic. Do you affirm when you are to take an oath. I do I affirm that I am telling the truth. My yeses are yes and my nos are no.” To which I replied:
 
“Yes I have! I took a case to the Small Claims Court up in _____ Township (in Indianapolis) several years ago – they only asked if we would ‘swear’ to tell the truth. I didn’t . . . the Judge caught that! And he said he wouldn’t hear my case if I didn’t! I told him that it was against my faith to ‘swear!’ He wasn’t very happy with me – nor was the attorney (yep, the other party showed up in Small Claims Court with an attorney!) or the manager/owner of the Indianapolis _______ (insert name of fast food restaurant)! They looked at me really stupid like and I said that as a Quaker I always tell the truth . . . he then asked if I would ‘affirm’ to tell the truth, which I did.” My Friend replied “Good for you!
 
What I didn’t appreciate was the Judge, Court Officer, the defendants & their attorney and court observers snickering and laughing at me over this. I didn’t find it a bit funny. During the whole proceeding I felt like I wasn’t taken seriously by the Judge or the defendants and their attorney - especially since they showed up without the employees that I had had spoken to at the business the day of the incident. When I asked where those employees were, the manager/owner said he had no idea who they were! Can you believe that?
 
Oh, for those of you who are curious, I had slipped on a large patch of ice (black ice with no way to avoid it) as I stepped out of my van to go inside to get something for lunch. I ended up on my side on the pavement, sustaining some rather nasty bruises on my thigh and breaking my cell phone. I was asking for compensation to replace my cell phone and for pain and suffering. The owner claimed there was no ice in their parking lot, amazing that he would say that . . . after admitting in court that he wasn't at the property that day! Unfortunately, in the end, the Judge dismissed my case, without prejudice.
 
There’s another ‘oath’ that causes concern among Friends, the Oath of the Boy Scouts of America:
 
On my honor I will do my best
To do my duty to God and my country
and to obey the Scout Law;
To help other people at all times;
To keep myself physically strong,
mentally awake, and morally straight.
 
Members of Friends Committee on Scouting, an affiliate of Friends World Committee for Consultation Section of the Americas, have been engaged in conversations, for several years, over the Boy Scout Oath. Those conversations have been with each other as well as other Friends . . . in person, on the phone, through emails and on our Facebook page. Most Friends are interested in how other Friends deal with this Oath. But, is it really an oath? OR More of a promise that the Scouts (youth members) and Scouters (adult members) are making?

As Clerk, I have also had opportunities to have conversations with the Chair of the BSA Religious Relationship Task Force, made up of representative from various faith bodies - including Quakers, and have asked if BSA could replace the word ‘oath’ with another term that would be less offensive and more acceptable among Friends. So far, nothing has come of that, but I’m not giving up.
 
Throughout all these conversations we’re seeking consensus, but like other issues that have come before us over the years, we haven’t reached a consensus on this issue, yet. There are those who say the oath and those that don’t say the oath.
 
When the thought of including something here about the BSA Oath, one thing that  came to my mind was the conversation between George Fox and William Penn, the one about Penn’s sword. And what spoke the loudest to me was the words George Fox said: “Wear it as long as you can.” I’m not sure why or exactly what that means, in relation to the BSA Oath. Is it that Friends should say it as long as they can OR that we should continue working with the BSA Religious Relationship Task Force for change?
 
So . . . Oath OR Affirm?
 
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Last year I included recipes along with each of my Quaker Alphabet posts, not sure I could carry that on another year, so in 2015 I’m going to include quilt blocks and/or quilts that begin with each letter. I hope this will be of interest to all, and for those of you that don’t know me, or know me well, I have been learning to quilt for some time now . . . and I don’t call myself a quilter, as I don’t believe I’m up to that level yet. So, here I go . . .
 
‘A' is for applique. Applique uses a variety of fabric pieces cut into various sizes and shapes that are affixed to the quilt or quilt block either with hand or machine stitching. In the last five years I’ve made three quilts and one wall hanging/table topper that incorporated appliqued pieces.
 
“It Isn’t Easy Being Green” quilt – hand appliqued. Now of course there’s a story behind this crazy looking frog quilt, which must be shared. In the spring of 2009 I made over 30 stuffed frogs which I donated to Quaker Haven Camp when I went up as a counselor, in June. That fall I began thinking about making a quilt using all the crazy fabrics I used for the frogs. I began looking for a pattern, one that I could use all 29 print fabrics from the frogs – not an easy task considering the really odd assortment of prints I had to work with.
 
In late January of 2010, I was looking through some old quilting magazines I had received that afternoon from my mother-in-law, and as I turned the page in one of those magazines . . . I saw it, the perfect quilt! It was rather late, so the next morning I dug out the bag containing the fabrics I had used to make all those frogs and by mid-afternoon I had all the pieces cut. I spent the next couple of day’s appliqueing the frogs to the solid colored blocks. Once that was done, I laid out all the pieces on the floor, stood back and thought “Yuck!” I wasn’t sure I wanted to go any further with it, but then I thought what have I got to lose? I began sewing the nine-patch blocks together and then added all the little squares around the frog blocks, placing each completed block back in place as it was finished. I didn't like it any better once all the blocks were done. Again I continued on, sewing each row together and then sewing the rows together. Again I stood back and took a look at it – and wasn’t any more impressed with it. What I had envisioned to be a lovely quilt for my bunk at camp was horrible looking. But . . .
 
I went ahead and measured, cut and sewed on the two borders. Laid it out on the floor again and stood back . . . WOW, what a difference the borders made! I was in love with it! Loving the scrappy look of my quilt I decided to sew small strips of all the prints together for the binding. The next year I turned two of the extra appliqued frog blocks into matching pillows. I’m happy to say that my crazy frog quilt is quite the conversation piece when I’m up at camp as a counselor and for USFW Fall Retreats. By the way, ‘It Isn’t Easy Being Green,’ is a song sung by Kermit the Frog . . . and I love Kermit!
 
“Butterfly and Flower” wall hanging/table runner – machine appliqued. I saw this pattern in a quilting magazine and knew I just had to make it! I was able to purchase the exact fabrics used in the sample at a local quilt shop – although I did make a few color substitutions - just because I didn’t care for some of the colors in the original. This also goes up to Quaker Haven Camp with me, a table runner in my cabin – adding a bright splash of color!
 
“Dragonfly Dreams” quilt – for my granddaughter Isabelle. I’m stuck on this one, trying to figure out whether to hand or machine applique all those dragonflies! This was made as a baby shower gift . . . for Isabelle’s big girl bed. I’m still struggling with how to quilt this one – by hand or machine. There will be dragonflies quilted all along the border. I also made a matching pillowcase, thinking about either appliqueing or quilting dragonflies on the cuff.
 
“S’Mitten’s” quilt – hand appliqueing. Members of the quilting/sewing group at my Meeting decided in late 2013 to do a ‘Fat Quarter Challenge.’ That is, we chose a fabric and those who wished to participate paid a couple of dollars and then received a ‘fat quarter’ (18 x 22-inch piece) of that fabric to be used in a project. We were given several months in which to create our projects, using all or part of that fabric in it, and then had a ‘show & tell,’ to share what we had made.
 
Just after New Year’s we had quite a bit of snow, which gave our public school students an unexpected extra week of Christmas vacation. Knowing I was gonna be ‘stuck at home,’ I thought it would be the perfect opportunity to begin working on this project. I remembered seeing a quilt pattern that I wanted to make, so I spent a bit of time looking through my quilting magazines until I found it. Now that I had a pattern, I had to figure out where to use the challenge fabric . . . the sashing (strips of fabric between and around the quilt blocks) seemed the perfect place, darn, the pattern said I’d need 3/8 yard for that and all I had was a fat quarter. Hummmm, OK, let’s see exactly what pieces need to be cut . . . YEAH!!!! I had plenty of the challenge fabric to cut the needed pieces for the sashing’s – even had a strip 2 ½ x 18 inches leftover. That was Monday.
 
Tuesday I went through my fabric stash and picked out the other fabrics, cut all the pieces and fused all the mittens on the blocks. Wednesday I was able to get the whole quilt pieced and sandwiched (layer the quilt top, batting & backing) together. By Thursday I was quilting it – beginning with appliqueing the mittens . . . which continues. I'm planning to sew a button in the gold squares and quilt mittens in the border. The binding is red with tiny white pin dots.